He just can't be bothered and I am tired of beating myself up over it. He told me he was too nervous we'd wake someone up and that he wouldn't be able to get it up. Seriously what good has getting laid ever done anyway. When you take control of your desire and make sex happen when you want it to happen, it takes on a whole new juicy dimension. This can be both biological hormones and physiology , or from some type of early severe psychological trauma.
We love each other very much and it kills me when I make her feel not wanted. Ask him what you can do to help him re-engage sexually. But a wise person will work to keep their spouse satisfied within the marriage. My apologies to you ladies. John B Submitted by Anon50 on April 10, - 7: You need to have an honest talk with your husband, but do it in love. We both have a little anxiety and self esteem issues because we are both a little over weight.
I’ve lost interest in sex since I became pregnant. What can I do? - BabyCentre UK
He or she might think: No, walk up and grab his you know what and do something very sexy with it, initiate and show that you like sex and that his prior teachings are incorrect. I just couldn't anymore. I tried everything under the sun. Nothing is more of a turn-on than a partner that helps his woman around the house. My Advice Submitted by Laura on March 31, - 3:
Not that it ever excuses wrong behavior on his part, but you need to know if you have said or done anything to turn him away from you. It was really difficult to keep your hands off each other. That as soon as you start touching, you should be rock hard or super wet and ready to go. September 17, at 4: Subscribe Subscribe to the Play of the Day for daily advice, videos and updates on how to be better dad. Then, try focusing on what gives pleasure, be it a foot massage which increases oxytocin and arousal , or self-pleasuring.